zaterdag 30 april 2011

Monday (last day with the First Host family)

Monday was my last day with my First host family.

This morning we visited Cristal Cathedral. It is an impressive building and area. In the Netherlands they broadcast the Hour of Power on the Dutch television.




















In the afternoon April gave me two vocational visits. Orangewood (Shelter care) and Canyon Ancers (Day treatment). In the next days I will visit more organisations in my field of work and compare them with each other.

At 6:00 there was a Farewell dinner with al the host families. It was a nice dinner. After dinner we went home and shared the evening together.  
The Dutch GSE presentation outfit

Group picture with GSE team and the Host families

The Alvarez family and me

zondag 24 april 2011

The Weekend

Friday
On Friday we went to the Richard Nixon library. This is big museum devoted to Richard Nixon. We learned about his personal live and his career. It was very interesting.


Nixon's birth house


Friday in the evening we had a lovely bbq with friends of my host family. The friends were the host family of Linda. We had a nice chat and enjoyed dinner. After dinner Linda and I showed pictures about our hometowns and told them a little about the history and touristic attraction in The Netherlands. They really enjoyed the ‘grachtenpanden’(canal houses), the delta works, queens day with the orange craziness.

Saturday:
On Saturday we went to Disneyland, wow.....just see the pictures and you now:



We had a lot of fun. The ride we were in is one of my favourites. Its a smal worls after al'


Mik, April and Abby joined us at Disneyland in the aternoon. In the middle of the picture is Emely, she is Mike's daughter and works at Disneyland. She got us in the Pirats of the Caribean ride,


Sunday
On Sunday morning I found something standing before my door. It was a Easter present from my host family. They give me a goodiebag with a big Easter egg with candy in it and some nice cookies. So sweet!! April made nice waffles with chicken sausages. It was a good time to try the ‘stroopwafels’ (dutch waffles). After dinner we went to church.

After church we went to see the family of Mike. This is I big family. We had a nice dinner/lunch. After lunch everyone went searching for Easter eggs in the garden.    



Thursday and Friday

Thursday morning we got a lecture by Dani Smith. She works at the Chapman University and participate in the Peace Study Program. She gave us a summary of the program. It was interesting because the main item was conflict resolution, that’s also the theme in de GSE trip.
Dani (and the Chapman University) believe that if you start with baby steps you finally can manage world wide peace. To achieve this goal everyone has to learn how to handle themselves then you can handle others and deal with conflicts. The key to handle yourself and others is to ask the question who is right? The answer to this question is that everyone is. Everyone has his one perception and has his own reason for it. If you respect the other, really listen to them and here what he is saying you have less conflicts and better contacts. 
In the end everyone just wants to tell there story. If you are a good listener and ask questions why some people think en do the things they do you have a better understanding.
The things Dani told us about the idea behind the Peace Study Program made me realize that in my field of work at Elker we already use this philosophy in the basis attitude of the social workers in our unit. It made me proud to realize we approach clients and the system in a way that is an entire field of study at the University in California.


For lunch we got invited at the Rotary club meeting. We did out short presentation and were honoured to meet Bob Meyer (one of the Rotarians) who was a glider pilot during the World War 2. He participated in the operation Market Garden and was a part of the liberation of the Netherlands. He showed us his awards and medals, including an award handed over by our Queen.
Bob Meyer the third on te right


My first vocational:
After lunch I had an appointment with a clinical social worker who gives psychotherapy for adults and adolescents. We had an interesting meeting. We shared experiences. We also compared the system in The Netherlands and in California. Besides the federal laws every county has his own laws and exceptions, so the comparing is just between California and the Netherlands.

I’ll first start to explain the social system within the adolescents care.
You have two systems in California, the Foster Care system ( federal and state) and the Medical Care System (state funding) and of course the private sector. Unfortunately most people don’t qualify for state help and can’t always afford this help. They can buy insurance but you have to pay a lot of money to get the right insurance you need.
People with a low income get a state insurance, a lot of people have a low income that is not low enough for state insurance, its tough for them.
Adolescents who are in the system are heavy cases, double diagnostics, orphans, criminal teens, abused and neglected children and adolescents.        
California has his own residential care for children and adolescents, this care made possible by the state, volunteers, fond (like churches, communities).
To help and prevent adolescents for going to residential care or juvenile there is the community that does a lot, they have supporting family resource centres, support groups, educational seminars and classes. Those are one of the many things they have.
There is a group that is not heavy enough for the residential care but who need the attention en treatment.  Here in Orange this group can visit the St Joseph hospital for day treatment. They start at 08:00am and choose to do this different therapies like peer group therapy, drama therapy and creative therapy. They leave at 14:00 pm.

A big difference between the care in California and The Netherlands is the observation responsibility at the school. Here in California the high schools are the observers and follow there students during there school process and mental health process.
Every student has his own individual plan. If a student needs more specialized education, school adapt there plan en give the student the education he needs. If there are other problems, like mental health problems, behavioural problems they adapt there individual plan and seek and guide the student with the therapy he needs. School is responsible during the entire period, they look for the right treatment, make sure the family gets the treatment they need and evaluate this treatment. Because of the responsible function, school is protected by law.

Unfortunately most care stops when the adolescents turns 18. For this age there are programs that support, by example help with finding a job, financial help, etc. April (the wife in my first host family) is finding sponsors for projects like this.  

Thursday evening:

This evening we went to a baseball match. The Angels (Anaheim) played against The Red Sox (Boston). It was our first time at a baseball match. The stadium was huge and everyone had there own support outfit (Mike arranged most of it). When the Angels were behind in score there was this funny mascot the fans had to call out loud. It was the Rally Monkey, a movie of a real Monkey that jumps up and down. When the Rally Monkey appears the crowd go’s wild!!! 
It was a long match (4,5 hour) and unfortunately The Angels lost. It was a good experience and so much fun.


The mascot Rally Monkey


woensdag 20 april 2011

Our first two days

After a good (short) night sleep in the Van der Valk hotel in Amsterdam we arrived at Schiphol airport to check in. There was a little stress because some of us (the girls) were carrying more weight then allowed in there suitcases so we had to divide the weight.
After dividing the weight there was still to many in mine. I crabbed my toiletry and the weight was correct. Unfortunately I forget about all the liquid inside (hairspray, after sun, facial crèmes). The customs at the Schiphol airport have a nice collection of toiletries since my check in!
Well….  Don’t make choices in stress situations (the lesson of the day).
In the eleven hour flight we watched a lot of new movies and took the time for some catching up with the team members.
The plain left at 10:00am and we arrived at 21:30pm (Dutch time). In California it was 12:00 in the afternoon (lunch time). It was a weird situation, we were ready to go to bed but the they started here in Cali.
After explaining why we were here, leaving our fingerprints at the customs we met the first Rotarians, we immediately felt welcome. The were enthusiastic and excited to see us and we were excited to see them.
They took us to the Double Tree Hotel in Orange, gave us a nice snack and we got in our wonderful hotel rooms. In the afternoon we got visited by the current en future governor of the district Rotary. And again the enthusiastic and exciting atmosphere.
The horrible stories about American people being conservative, no sarcasm or teasing is not true. We felt welcome and like home.
Despite our tiredness we wanted to take a swim in the pool and the Jacuzzi!!!
Afterwards we went to our hotel room for a good night sleep (20:00pm Californian time, 04:00 at night Dutch time).

In the morning some of us went jogging (California is a very sportive and healthy state despite al the fast-food restaurants).
After a nice breakfast at the hotel our first host families picked us up.
I m at a lovely family called the Alvarez family. The father is a real estate developer  who loves and practicing cycling, mom is working as a fond raiser in the social welfare for children (we have a lot to talk about), the youngest daughter is a high school student and a cross-country runner and the oldest daughter is a college girl who works at Disneyland. I got to spent the afternoon with Mike (father) and the lovely Abby (youngest daughter) after we had a nice lunch with Mike’s wife (april). April brought me an interesting book about the conditions of children in Orange County. We picked up Abby from here school. This is a high school we have seen in the movies. They have this gigantic field with different kind of sports (football, baseball, athletics and more), Again California is really into health and sports.



After picking up Abby we went for some shopping (it’s a shop Walhalla) and Mike took us to the old part of the Orange city. When we got there, there were preparing this weekly ceremony by a beautiful fountain. There were lots of Veterans who served in Vietnam. Every Wednesday evening the ‘retire the flag’ in honour of all the soldiers who are serving in the different wars world wide. There were veterans, wifes and family of soldiers who are serving. Mike told them about my boyfriend (paratrooper) and they thanked me for his support. They gave me a gift. I have to give it to my boyfriend for honouring his hard work for the country.
Its amazing to see how proud and involved they are. It was very impressive.


In the evening we went to our Welcome-Party in this huge house of the governor of the Rotary. We met everyone’s host family and talked about the program. Thom (our team leader) started with a speech and later on the team members started introducing themselves within the presentation. It was a nice evening.
Tomorrow we have a tour at the Chapman University, doing a presentation at a Rotary Club. And in the afternoon a vocational activity. I’m going to visit a psychologist who works with children, I’m very excited.